A woman is the center of the family. She is the creator, supporter and is responsible for expansion of the family. A woman is the nourisher of the family. She fills a house with the warmth of her emotion and make it a home. The female energy is the source for life like the earth. This is why earth is called as ‘mother earth’. Just like a temple without the idol is of no importance, so is the temple of home without the woman.
Millions of people are experiencing difficult family life. People do not feel peace at home and hence they spend more time outside. There is only one way to make home a peaceful place, where one gets the deep sleep to rejuvenate for the next morning. For a happy home, it is necessary for the WOMAN of the home to be happy.
A woman gives her life’s purpose for the home and expect very little from family members. Among the littles, these are few chosen ones, which the other family members should take care for her:
In such unfortunate era where a woman feel insecure outside, at least she should get ample dignity and respect for her to feel assured at home.
#2 Share responsibility:
A woman is the nourisher of the family, but it’s not only her responsibility to take care of daily needs of her home. Running a home is like running a startup with 4-5 employees. It is not easy to take care of meals, clothing, hygiene, medicines, schooling and hundred of big or small tasks in a home. Just like a team a family also runs with collaboration. A 9-5 job is much easier than looking after a home without assistance. Everybody in a family should contribute based on their capability and time. A collaborative family is the most happy family. A woman gets her own time when in such a model otherwise she can get bore and of her monotonous household responsibility leading to depression. The 21st century super woman who is doing all this plus exceeding in her career and contributing to family’s financial requirement need a huge applaud for her highly skilled management and multitasking skills.
A family should take care to distribute the joint responsibilities of a family equally which as a result leads to a happy woman and hence a happy family.
#3 Aspirations & Dreams:
Let the woman of the family dream and fulfill their aspirations. It is the responsibility of a good family member of take care of her dreams.
Female energy is the emotional energy and the core of any relation is emotion. A woman is more emotional towards her relationship from childhood. She is more close to her parents, siblings, friends, husband, children due to her basic nature. A female will remember important events, memories and make sure to cherish them. A woman should have all freedom to take care of all her relationships being it visiting a childhood friend, taking care of her parents or making a new friend. Indian society still follows the old culture of a last ritual ‘Vidai’ meaning ‘Adieu’ of bride on her marriage where the family members gets emotional as she leave her family and friends to join her husband’s family. I personally feel the society need to reform this with time. The ritual emboss such a strong feeling in family members as if she is born to sacrifice all her relationships. And this sets the same expectation from day one in her marriage life.
The family should help her in rejoicing all her relations.
#5 Fun factor:
Try to make the females of family laugh and smile often and add fun factor in their lives.
The key to happiness is to be with a happy female energy. If you are having a difficult family life, check the women’s physical and emotional health of your home. As the home without a mother, wife and daughter is a dry home. We need to pay attention to these energies which make house – a happy home.